Today is the 4th August 2010 . Much has been happening around me, but work was keeping me from blogging . Nevertheless, i hadda vent my troubles somewhere .

If you know me well, i don't really have much friends, hence, it's more or less me helping friends rather than friends helping me, but that wasn't what i wanna talk about today .

One of my friend, who got married three months earlier than me, is now waiting for a legal divorce letter from his wife . I can't say who is the victim in this case, but i know, he's feeling worse than his wife, simply because he didn't wanted it . I couldn't think of what to say to comfort him so all i did was listen to the story . Neither could i judge because all i heard was a single side of the story . I know, as a friend, i wanted to help .

I met up with him after a long day at work, listened to his sorrow, seen his puffy eyes, i realized . . . how lucky i am . Though i often remind myself about how others suffer and i don't have to go though what they take, i thought i should learn how to cherish and appreciate instead .

Because knowing is so different from applying .

Many a times we set our eyes on things we want so far, we instantly forget the good things we have in hand, till we lost them .

Anyways, i hope my friend is feeling better .